Bulletproof, nothing to lose

You’re all singing that Sia song, aren’t you? If that’s painful, by all means start humming the latest Justin Bieber tune.

Why am I talking about bullets? Last week, I sat on the couch and applied for jobs. I know, I’m supposed to be in my organized office wearing work clothes and shoes, but bear with me. As I crafted my cover letters, I opted to use bullet points to highlight the experiences that matched the job requirements. Three of those companies have responded. Now, nobody is knocking at my door with a contract and a pen, but maybe the wheel is slowly starting to turn. Maybe employers like bullet points. Maybe these are the magic bullets I’ve been looking for. Or maybe it’s just a coincidence. 

Brainstorm with me. Check out the list of values below. If you were asked which resonates with you and why, what would be your answer? I’ve been asked to do the same, and I’m interested in what others might say:

• Inclusivity

• Curiosity

• Community

• Creativity

• Partnership

If you have a moment, please drop me a note with your personal thoughts on which value plays an important role in your life. I value your input, and I am looking forward to hearing what you have to say.

Hanging out in the muscle dude section

A month or so ago, Matt won five free personal training sessions at the Monon Center. Matt didn’t particularly need those sessions - the gym is his second home, and he seems to think exercise is a fabulous pastime. Me, on the other hand, could use a jump start. Matt set me up with a trainer, who designed a personal exercise program for me. 

A confession - I don’t particularly love the gym. I don’t play well in exercise classes, and I feel uncomfortable when I have to mix up my exercise machine order because someone’s hogging the leg crunch machine. Then my trainer takes it a step further by designing an exercise program that involves spending time in the free weight section of the gym. You know exactly what I’m talking about - it’s the place where mostly guys congregate to lift really big weights. The  trainer expects me to venture into that area and work out alongside the muscle dudes. He claims the muscle dudes don’t care that I’m in their section. They’re not going to the locker room and saying, “Hey, did you see that pudgy gray-haired lady in our section?” (If the gym is anything like the job market, they probably don’t even see the gray-haired lady, because age often renders us invisible, I fear.) But, my fear of disappointing the trainer outweighs my fear of the muscle dudes, so I am dutifully hitting the muscle dude side of the gym.

I think I’m hitting the muscle dude portion of my job search. Applying for Linked In jobs isn’t cutting it. According to some amazing people in my network, it’s time to start approaching people directly, giving them my elevator pitch and asking them where I fit in their organization. This is a lot harder than hanging out with the muscle dudes. I’ll take muscle dudes over cold calling anytime.

I’m asking my network to pretend they’re my personal trainer this week. Tell me I can do this. Tell me your personal elevator pitches and how you became comfortable with them. Tell me about the times you took a risk and succeeded. Hold me accountable.  I appreciate you.

Sunshine on my shoulders

I spent the last week with my father in Cleveland, trying to declutter his home and find his dining room table. It took four days and a half dozen trash bags to complete the task. He has already called me a half dozen times, looking for important things like envelopes and his bathroom floor mat.

Why is John Denver here? Well, Dad watched a John Denver special and now is John Denver’s greatest fan. I listened to more John Denver last week than I did when I owned his singles on 45 records. Here’s some wisdom from the bespectacled guy himself, and I think it applies to all of you who continue to support me and read my updates.

I believe that we are here for each other, not against each other. Everything comes from an understanding that you are a gift in my life - whoever you are, whatever our differences.

John Denver

Thanks for keeping me in mind. If you hear of any job openings or know someone I should speak to, please let me know.